Safer Methods of Masturbation with a Penis
Many people with penises masturbate. However, few have received instruction on how to masturbate. Because of the difficulty in comparing your own way of masturbating to another's, it is difficult to know whether one's own method provides the best results or not. In this article, we will explain some guidelines to masturbation methods that those with penises may wish to keep in mind while masturbating on a regular basis.
Contents
Definition of Safer Masturbation
High-risk Masturbation Methods
Safer Masturbation Methods
① Using A Gentle Grip
② Stroking Slow and Steady
③ Keeping the Body Relaxed
④ Pulling Back of the Foreskin As Much As Possible
⑤ Avoid Using Adult Content (e.g. Pornography)
Simulating the Sensations of Intercourse
⑥ Using the MEN'S TRAINING CUP
⑦ Shaking Your Hips
⑧ Use Lubricant
⑨ Using A Condom
Summary: Masturbation Method Effects Accumulate
Definition of Safer Masturbation
Safer masturbation is defined as masturbation that does not cause erectile dysfunction (ED) or intravaginal ejaculatory dysfunction (IVEjD).
Often young men try various types of pleasurable stimulation, but if they are using ill-advised and unusual methods, they might come to regret it. Such methods may eventually result in ED or intravaginal ejaculatory dysfunction (IVEjD). Safer masturbation techniques will help to protect your and your partner's sex life.
High-risk Masturbation Methods
Before explaining safer methods of masturbation, we will start by discussing high-risk methods. High-risk masturbation methods are those with stimuli and situations that are far removed from actual intercourse.
＜High-risk Masturbation Methods＞
"Using A Too Strong Grip
High-Speed Stroking
Stretched Leg Posture
Floor Masturbation/Floor Humping
Vibrator Masturbation
Foreskin Masturbation
Water Stream Masturbation
Using Adult Content (e.g. Pornography)"
Reference
Danger! Increasing the Risk of Intravaginal Ejaculatory Dysfunction - 8 Inappropriate Masturbation Techniques (Onanism), for Males or Persons with Penises
If one becomes too accustomed to these practices, it may become much more difficult to ejaculate with vaginal or conventional stimulation. In the long term, you may become less aroused by conventional sex, or become unable to achieve an adequate erection.
Safer Masturbation Methods
Generally speaking the safer way to masturbate may be considered the opposite of the previously introduced high-risk masturbation methods. If at all possible, please adhere strictly to the following methods ①～⑤, and as much as possible to ⑥～⑨ as well.
① Using A Gentle Grip
"It is important to not apply strong pressure to the penis. Try to apply as much force as you would when holding a mandarin orange in your hand.
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Use A Gentle Grip
Firm, but never too much that it would crush a mandarin orange.
② Stroking Slow and Steady
Move at a speed no faster than you would normally have sex. Also be sure that you can move slowly but still feel good.
Stroke It Slow and Steady
Moving at around the same speed as sexual intercourse
③ Relax The Body
Avoid straining the whole body, especially the legs. If you have a habit of stretching out and tensing your legs, try a sitting position.
Relax Your Legs
Never use the Stretched Leg Posture
④ Pulling Back the Foreskin As Much As Possible
The foreskin should be pulled back and not used as much as possible. This is because the movement of the foreskin sliding over the glans cannot be reproduced in actual vaginal penetration. Also, by using the foreskin, you tend to have to use a stronger grip to cause it to slide over the glands.
⑤ Avoid Using Adult Content (e.g. Pornography)
If you constantly masturbate using highly stimulating media (e.g. pornography), the actual act of sex may eventually not be enough to satisfy you. It is best to refrain from using overly stimulating videos and images. If at all possible, try to shift from visual stimulation to fantasizing about your partner.
As you use your imagination
Fantasize about your partner
Simulating the Sensations of Intercourse
Here, we will discuss about methods of masturbation that feel closer to actual intercourse. For those especially concerned about delayed ejaculation or intravaginal ejaculatory dysfunction, we urge you to keep reading.
⑥ Using the MEN'S TRAINING CUP Level 5
Certain products can be used to get closer to the feel of penetrative sex. In particular, Level 05 of the MEN'S TRAINING CUP is a mildly stimulating aid, and you can use this as a benchmark for whether you can ejaculate with something close to the feeling of actual sex.
⑦ Thrust Your Hips
"One of the major difference between masturbation by hand and actual sex is the use of hip swinging and thrusting. If you can ejaculate with weak stimulation by hand, but cannot ejaculate during actual sex, there may be a correlation between your ability to ejaculate and the way you move your hips.
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If you masturbate by thrusting your hips, we recommend using the Men's Training Cup 05. You can hold the cup in place against a pillow or cushion, or secure it to a fixed device while thrusting your hips.
It is not necessary to thrust your hips every time you masturbate, but you should make sure that it will feel good every time that you do.
Reference
Items Useful for stabilizing the MEN'S TRAINING CUP for Hip Thrusting
⑧ Using Lubricants
Lubricants can be used to make movement smoother, and thus feeling is closer to actual penetration.
For lubrication, we recommend TENGA Health Care's Moist Care Gel. Most lubricants are more viscous than what is naturally made by the body, but Moist Care Gel is designed to have a smooth consistency, similar to vaginal secretions. It is also very easy to wipe off and does not leave unpleasant residue.
Reference
THC Moist Care Gel with Glycyrrhizic Acid 2K Reduces Inflammation and Provides Gentle Moisture to the Body
⑨ Using A Condom
If you use a condom during partnered sex, using a condom during masturbation could make the sensation feel closer to actual sex. But when a condom is worn, there may be too much friction for the bare hand to move properly, so using the the MEN'S TRAINING CUP Level 05 and Moist Care Gel for gentle stimulation will help with masturbation.
Summary: Masturbation Method Effects Accumulate
Feeling good is an important part of masturbation. However, many people often lose pleasure from extreme stimulation in the long run, in pursuit of this goal. High-risk masturbation can be like a drug, no longer satisfying you via conventional means of stimulation. By all means, we want you to enjoy your masturbation experiences, but within the safety of proper masturbation practices.
